ACT

Why Does Trying to Control Everything Make Anxiety Worse?

You made the plan. You made a backup plan. You even planned what to do if the backup plan goes sideways. Then someone says, “Let’s just see what happens,” and your whole body votes no. You are not wrong for wanting structure. Plans help. But when you need a guarantee before you can exhale, planning

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Why Am I Anxious When I Seem to Be Ok?

You made deadlines and handled crises, but your brain is holding a staff meeting about every ‘what if’ possible, and apparently attendance is mandatory. When life looks fine from the outside, anxiety can feel confusing. You may wonder whether you’re making too much of it. Child, I’m here to tell you that getting things done

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Acceptance

Acceptance in ACT – We Need to Talk About It – Like Bruno

In Encanto, the family stops talking about Bruno. He lives behind the walls, trying to patch the cracks while everyone carries on as if the house has no problem. Child, the cracks did not get that memo. You may know that move. Anxiety shows up, and your mind says, “Nope. We are not doing this.”

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